Listen to me Snafu-bar,
When a member of my own family was killed by a mugger a few years back I was pissed, I wanted the guy dead, in fact I wanted him to die in the most atrocious way and I did say some pretty stupid things at the time.
I understood in time that getting even is never the solution. It only brings on more hate. Revenge doesn't solve anything. The penal system's job isn't to exact revenge, it is to render justice. It might feel unfair but in time I understood that this is the best we can do. We can lock em' up but certainly nnot become criminals ourselves by stooping to their level. We're better, infinitely better than these criminals.